Coaching for Addictions
Coaching for Addictions: Help for the Loved Ones of the Addict
Drugs, Alcohol, Sex, Porn and More
BRAND NEW!! C.E. Course for Counselors and Coaches
By Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., MFT, CPC
Certified Professional Coach
Includes 40-page manual plus Quiz & Certificate for 10 C.E. Contact Hours.
Fee: Text format mailed USPS $97 -- Online format emailed $87
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Instructions are simple! Each course comes with a short, multiple choice quiz, that goes chapter by chapter, and is open book. You just email us the answers to your quiz in the body of an email and we email you your Certificate of Completion within 48 hours. If you don't pass, we give you as many tries as you need!
Dr. Lyn has over 25 years experience as a LMFT and Certified Professional Coach. Most of her clients have struggled with the addiction(s) of a loved one. She shares with you exactly how to coach your clients on how to handle their situation. Emphasis on getting the loved one into recovery, and how to participate in their recovery. Dr. Lyn shows you how to detach with compassion, what to say to yourself, what to say aloud, and how to pull out of the situation while avoiding conflict and the emotional rollercoaster. How to protect yourself with spiritual empowerment, how to show genuine love and concern, while detaching from your emotions. This book is a must-read for anyone who is struggling with other people's addictions.
What Others Are Saying About This Course:
"This book provides specific examples of how to handle an addict who is also a loved one. Many other books are "pep talks", but this book by Dr. Lyn Kelley explains the why behind behaviors, motivates for new behaviors, and gives a play by play handbook of how to free yourself from a variety of sticky situations. This is the layman's book of wisdom from someone whose been there. Your cup will be filled after reading her materials. I'm very thankful to you for sharing."
--Connie Sheehan, BCC
"I am at the point of having a better understanding of what the author speaks about because I have been journeying for a while in the field of psychology and self improvement as well as quite a bit of experience interacting with people. This is very good writing. Nothing is black and white. Yet this book is filled with formulas that I do intend to use to ease my journey called life. I thank the author because I was using a lot of those methods unconsciously now I can be more conscious in their use. One thing is clear though we cannot do it for others since our life is our primary focus. Each must take responsibility for him or herself."
--Bella, Amazon Review
"Thank you for giving me the gift of your words in this book. I COULDN'T PUT it down all week and have gained so many empowering tools that have stayed in my thoughts daily. I RECOMMENDED IT TO A FRIEND. Having read so many books over the years I found this one very relevant and down to earth. You were obviously writing from experience and kept it real and workable. THANKS again. Look forward to reading more."
---Tracey Carter, Amazon Review
Here's what you'll get:
Chapter 1: How to Know if He/She’s an Addict
Addicts Are Experts at Hiding
Early Warning Signs
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Chapter 2: How “Bad” Is He/She?
Stages of Severity
What Makes People Change?
Pain vs Pleasure
How quickly can people change?
Gradual Change
The 6-Step Change Process
Chapter 3: Why We Are Attracted to Addicts (and Stay With Them)
A Powerful Force
Co-Dependency
Enabling
True “Helping” Behaviors
Co-Addicts
Chapter 4: What is Recovery and Why Do We Both Need It?
It’s Complicated
Treatment Options for the Addict
Treatment Options for YOU
Chapter 5: How to Get the Addict Help and What to Do If He/She Refuses
The Right Thing Is Usually the Hardest Thing
Commitment Phobia
Intervention
Should You Give An Ultimatum?
What to Do If They Refuse Treatment
How to Take Care of Yourself
Chapter 6: How to Set Boundaries
What Are Boundaries?
Boundaries and Intimacy
Boundaries That Promote Intimacy
Strong Surrender
Chapter 7: How to Know When to Stay or Leave
Powerlessness
If Words Don’t Work, Use No Contact
Trust Your Instincts
What If They Get Treatment and their Personality Changes?
Chapter 8: How to Move On and Recover On Your Own if Necessary
Relationship Detox
Five Things That Will Help You Stay in Detox
Time Is Your Best Friend
Chapter 9: How to Stay Strong